2010年10月10日星期日

Ten Tips to prevent the derailment of a man his wife

more common time.
The conventional wisdom is that the Chinese people: men outside, women inside. This understanding, as men often go home at night out or even provide an excuse. Many women do domestic chores, it seems that a woman's position at home. But the woman at home, long-term one, no company of men, it will lonely boring, a long time, will think to look for companions to take part in some communication or entertainment activities, going out from inside the house. Loneliness in the psychological already under the influence of a woman to go out, it is likely to be the temptation to other men. Because of this opportunity to increase the chance occurrence of an affair, women do not go outside, how can the affair it? Therefore, men should guard against a woman having an affair, the first is to more homely, more comfort to the woman, to make their own home, the warmth was at home. In this way, women will naturally reduce the chances of having an affair.

2, occasionally asked to participate in his wife's party.
If the total activities of a woman, you feel unable to control the whereabouts of his wife under the heart and not very reassuring, then you can request a temporary wife to participate in the activities. In particular some activities can take her husband to go. If the wife is out cheating, the natural moment could not find any excuse to reject you attend, even if that excuse, sometimes reluctantly. If you regularly participate in the activities of his wife, the wife of the relationships that naturally have more and deeper understanding. Can do Zhiyizhibi. If the wife is not having an affair, his wife to participate in appropriate activities, will improve the relationship between husband and wife. If the wife has circumcenter can also be found in time, timely prevention.

3, do not do harm to his wife to do.
Many women have an affair, often because their husband is not good, of course, the most likely thing is that my husband has done something deeply hurt his wife. If her husband beats a wife, cheating wife, husband or lovers outside. Or the husband and his wife could not care less, his wife was pregnant, her husband did not ask, do not smell. With these injuries, after marriage the wife will not be taken very seriously, it will not take the initiative to reject the temptation of the outside world. On the contrary, a good experience outside of their own men, said the two do not necessarily contrast, the duty-bound to be a merit-based and.

4, so that their female relatives to become his wife's partner.
There are several benefits of doing so: First, the two sides of the family can make a real integration, a family. Divide rather than to each other, mutual Mai Tai. Meanwhile, more usually take care of in life and mutual support, to eliminate loneliness. Another advantage, of course, is to change the wife's daily communication environment, so that may reduce the occurrence of an affair. There is the family can play supervisory role and the role of information transfer. Although these arrangements do not need to deliberate, but it will pass through the daily behavior of their loved ones out.

5, to understand his wife's social circle.
Art of speaking, to Zhiyizhibi to know yourself. His wife is not the enemy, but against their own people deserted or betrayed, but no less than against the enemy easily. To prevent his wife derailed, it means that, and then pro-people, there may be opposition. Otherwise, there would be no people across the belly of the comments. Suspicious of his wife and their random, not as more eye-pay more attention to his wife's communication circle, friends, acquaintances, colleagues, and have the opportunity to contact these people would act in his wife's style and character to understand more fully, more real. If the wife does not occur an affair, his confidence can be enhanced, if there are any signs, nor do they need so my wife affair, and take root, they can then be investigated and regret.

6, no reason to be a leader against his wife Reds.
If the wife is not usually capable units, there is no special relationship to the background. The unit suddenly became an important figure on the Reds or the leadership, often wine server, keep playing, keep a business trip, you have to pay attention, make a few more question marks? At this time, his wife often said to work overtime, you will much more eye out. If the wife used to be underappreciated, and now it is finally light gold, then do not worry.

7, pay attention to whether the law of his wife's life changes.
Once a woman has an affair, and had extra-marital emotion, it naturally will not calm, if men are not found in long-term, it can only be that men are too stupid. If the woman out, and occasionally play with extramarital sex with people, and mostly improvised, and after to complete, it will not affect their normal life. However, once a woman outside marriage love, some will have more on the patterns of life change. Such as telephone, text messaging, as well as mood changes, and so rule out, therefore, women have extramarital affairs, began to try not to change this law, but as time goes by, the deepening of the feelings, it is difficult to maintain this calm. When a woman regularly to find excuses to justify their actions, as a man to much attention.

8, culture, and his wife love more romantic atmosphere.
Years of marriage, but also to send roses to my wife who is not necessarily a very romantic nature, but only know how to love. If they do not feeling well, if you do not want to improve relations, you will get roses? So, send roses between husband and wife, or is the Tao Qian, either because happy. I believe that many, and his wife to cultivate their feelings, no need to talk about the romantic form. Only feeling good, and also only naturally have a romantic interest at all. Therefore, training is the primary emotion. With feelings, can be interference. Like radar, as the instrument itself the hardware is not good, poor performance, that is not interference, their fix did not work out. What way?

9, allow yourself to become better.
Men can not bear the responsibility, women naturally easy to derail. For example, in this society now, man can not be said to bear responsibility for not re-ah. Buy a house, raise children, aged people and so on, some men even have a wife. When a man limited ability, and sometimes it does not necessarily take well to feed their families, or the responsibility of women to openly behave in this situation, if the feelings between husband and wife, but also not to be sufficient to tolerate or to deepen Ignore these circumstances, the woman most likely out for help. While women seek help from outside resources and to pay the biggest, most probably increase physical affection. So, allow yourself to become better man, a woman not to worry about in these areas, nature, women will reduce the possibility of derailment.

10, more than to see a woman's advantage.
When men play a leading role at home, we should see more benefits of a woman, because women lack self-confidence, the mood will be suppressed, in this case, if in interpersonal interactions, other men are sure to find a more adequate confidence When might the mind outwards. Women more than men to see the advantages, it will make a woman more confidence, so that people can take the initiative to play the female family of responsibility. Especially when a woman in love, most men hear is good things, but after marriage, but this feeling down singly, must make a woman feel that being fooled, which no longer believe in the so-called love. If outside and found confidence, it must put the original of this house as hell.

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